tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998417064636496648.post8667008554624440448..comments2023-10-30T09:25:46.429-04:00Comments on Baby, Borneo or Bust. . .: Hoping for the Best, Planning for the WorstQueenie. . .http://www.blogger.com/profile/00666609807461763029noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998417064636496648.post-41658983688292866382009-01-17T11:44:00.000-05:002009-01-17T11:44:00.000-05:00Please keep us updated! I daily struggle with this...Please keep us updated! I daily struggle with this as well. At the moment for the first time I find myself completely at a loss at being able to emotionally handle both situations: the adoption process and meds. I feel the same way, however, and know that regardless of a pregnancy or not we WILL be adopting. I feel so strongly about that ... just not today ...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998417064636496648.post-85892960125829643602009-01-10T13:13:00.000-05:002009-01-10T13:13:00.000-05:00We worked on both options at once too. I found it ...We worked on both options at once too. I found it hard to be whole-heartedly committed to adoption when I was still doing IVF, but in the end when all the procedures didn't work for us -- and particularly after I lost my only pregnancy -- we were so so glad that we had already completed most of the initial adoption paperwork, because it meant we could move forward to Plan B quickly. At that point, I wanted a family so badly that speed was essential. Adding another year to complete the paperwork would have been torture.<BR/><BR/>I'm so thankful we gave adoption a chance. Manda is right -- this new child of ours makes all the difference, and it doesn't matter a bit how he came to us. He's here, and that's all that matters.Rebeccahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03110795754864023339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6998417064636496648.post-79126648416886921622009-01-10T09:59:00.000-05:002009-01-10T09:59:00.000-05:00You're absolutely right. You WILL have a family.....You're absolutely right. You WILL have a family... And I can tell you with absolute certainty now that no matter where your child comes from, s/he will fill up your life completely from the second you meet them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com